Hello World!

Its been a while since I wrote anything on my self ... I don't wish to officially make this a diary, I wish for it to remain what it is, a Blog. I do however want to share my life in it and the experiences that come with it. Thus I would like to start by introducing myself to you. My name is Siyabulela Zizokwanda-IIntsikelelo Baliso. I was born on a Thursday morning in Krugersdorp Hospital on the 5th January 1989 |please don't ask my memories thereof, as I spent only four years there during post-natal period| I was born to a father who is half Zulu, half Xhosa and a mom who is pure Xhosa. |and please again, don't ask me to tell you where I fall on the latter|.
We moved to small town Mthatha where my mom is from, 4 years after me and my younger brother were born ... stayed there during my prep, middle and junior school years, however Cape Town was my holiday destination every June and December vacation respectively, since father moved this side. I fell in love with this city, hence my request to move here and complete my high school years. It was fun and sad at times but I loved it nonetheless. For all those that don't know |Your ignorance is pardoned| I am a young black gay male currently juggling University and life and its shortcomings. I'm enrolled for a Baccalaureates Atrium, majoring in Political Science, Gender Studies and African Literature. With God's grace by the end of the coming year I will be conferred with my first ever degree ... I await that day with bated breath.

My life:

I  have been told by many that I appear as though I'm stuck-up and egotistical or is it 'ego-testicle' |laughs|, well my response has always been ... 'well darling ... you clearly don't know me as well. Self love I have but, I don't regard myself as better than any individual ... unless we're competing for Beyonce's bootie hop. I make friends quite easily to a limited extent though ... sometimes I become a 'social decline' for no apparent reason. I have friends, I have had friends, I have lost friends, and I'm still looking for friends because my belief is that true friends are forever. I like music, I like alcohol and I love a good time | please note that my definition of good time might be slightly different to what you have in mind, thus mine is shopping alone or with friends, eating out, dressing up for the movies, going from night bar to night bar just because it is well within my right, spending time with loved ones, reading a good book, laughing, drinking wine and smiling while doing it (I have proven the fact that you tend to get tipsy more than the others in the room if you do so), going through fashion spreads and gossip columns of a magazine at the magazine section of a local supermarket, just to be on the know of the latest fads and trends ... even though I will not be purchasing the magazine |laughs to self|, cooking, baking and all the typical domestic stuff my mommy taught me all those years, I love girls girls and more girls ... I relate to them more than I do to any species. I also enjoy it when I get A's and B's on my script after a hectic paper| that for me is a good time!


Nuff said:

Well I can count the number of times I've had boyfriends, and I mean people that I had relations with ... I think about |scratching head vigorously| 3. |laughs to self| I am single ... sometimes miserable but at times the best thing that ever happened to me |Yeah right!| well considering that I'm a free spirit that's always willing to dress the part and prepare to shake some booty at a party a friend invites me to, I'd say its pretty much the best thing that ever happened to me. However, this post is not about my marital status, I just thought I should throw it out there.

Finally:

I guess the point of this blog is purely for fun reasons, I am introducing myself to the world in a witty, fun, spontaneous and sometimes serious manner. I want to teach and be taught, I want to laugh, I want to love, I want to be free.

Welcome to my Sanctuary. |WORD IZ|